Living the Honeymoon Life: A Field Guide to the Seasons of a Christ-Centered Marriage

"The Honeymoon doesn't last." Well, that is what we were told to expect over thirty-five years ago. Guess what, they were wrong!

Curtis and I have been privileged to live in the reality that the honeymoon can, does, and should last. We are nothing special of our own accord, but living and focusing on God as our Head and Jesus as our role model, we have discovered a place of joy and happiness despite the circumstances around us. We model what it looks like for you with examples of how Curtis acts as head of the family and a servant leader, which puts me, Terri, at peace. I can then operate freely in my calling as a helper and can stretch my creative wings. When I am operating in my part as collaborer, Curtis is confident to move boldly in all that God has called him to be. We want to share these simple habits with you in this book.

The Bible is the book to follow for a life of abundance and passion. This book reflects on and depends on the Living Word of God, focusing on practical habits and attitudes that put God's design in your marriage every day. Curtis and I have proven in our marriage that growing in our relationship with God individually is the secret sauce in keeping our honeymoon alive. We have included the practices we have found most successful in introducing practical, achievable habits into our everyday marriages.

• Through scripture memorization, we begin the process of renewing our minds.
• Couples devotionals that require you to work together.
• Soul-searching activities that will ask you to stop and allow the Holy Spirit to work on your identity as Christ's bride.
• Utilization of examples of Biblical couples, but in a modern-day light as guides, both good and bad.
• Games and suggested activities are woven throughout each season to ensure you slow down and savor the moments of growing together.
• Team building activities and insights to help you see your spouse as your partner, not your adversary.
• Calendar ideas to keep the intimacy fired up.
• And, of course, deeper Biblical journeys that you have permission to skip if they are not helpful at the moment.

Living the Honeymoon Life does not mean we expect or aim for perfection, or that we will never encounter problems. We are here to testify that trials and tribulations do happen. Curtis and I have faced many of life's heartaches: rebellious teens, mental health, health, legal issues, layoffs, and financial issues. Living a Honeymoon Life means we don't pack up and go back to Mom and Dad's when difficulties arise; we have learned to embrace each moment as it comes. We address the ups and downs and various seasons that will be encountered, but also provide tips and truths to help you and your spouse stay in harmony, regardless of the season.

Journey with us through the seasons of marriage to prove God's unfailing, always present love for His children, you and your spouse. Can you truly live a Honeymoon Life? There is only one way to find out!

Happy Honeymooning!